It should be L- Love not L-Lust


Love and Lust??????? Oh!!! Damn sensitive topic to be discussed or talked about but some times is good. No offense though.
Let’s take the First scenario. A girl and boy fall in love. Love, at first sight, they have innocent relationships going on for a few days later on the boy approaches for physical relationships and asks her about being comfortable in physical relationships the girl hesitates and denies for the physical indulgence. Which results to end of their relationship.

Let’s take the second scenario a girl and a boy are in the relationship for more than a year having good understanding and also care for each others feeling and are also comfortable in physical relationships. Their relationship is still living and growing.

As for the second scenario, there’s a lot of love affection, respect, honesty, and care towards each other and in the first scenario, its Lust lying deceiving manipulation and hurting other’s feelings. Their action towards love is just craving to get or to self-gratify. Even if the girl wants to continue her relationship without having physical relationships because of her abundance love the boy won’t choose love over lust. Continuing the relationship girl might be broken-hearted lose her self respect her self confidence. But losing that kind of relationship she will be proud in the future about her decision. Because love respect is important than lust.

Some heads might be thinking its 21st century having sex after the age of 18 is fine. It’s their choice. But without his or her concern it’s no that fine it’s just forcing and one’s selfishness. Falling love with only because of sexual appearance is not love its lust. No offense but their sexual appearance does not matter in love but the size of their heart matters for lasting relationships. Lust is what keeps you wanting to do it even when you have no desire to be with each other. Love is what makes you want to be with each other even when you have no desire to do it.
Love, at first sight, is true but not what your eyes see but what your heart sees. So respect and care for each other and love with your heart…..

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इसलिए बहक गए!
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तो हमारी मासूम वफादारी देख लेते!
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प्यार करते हैं, सौदा नहीं!



  1. Shweta Pawar 11 November, 2019 at 04:48 Reply

    In my opinion love is all about to acceptance, how ever ur partner is and obviously it’s all about respect and honesty and I must say decision of both the person is equally important to having physical relationship it’s not necessary physical relationship is important for growing relationship

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